"We eat with our eyes" from Anne Burrell on her Food-TV show "Secrets of a Restaurant Chef".
This got me thinking. In fact the comment was more along the line of "If it looks great, we think it will taste great".
So, if we were a plate of food would we 1. Only look good, with no good flavor 2.Taste great (good personality) but not that attractive 3. The whole package
It's only human to judge with our eyes. There are things we can not or should not change. The challenge is to find your best features, accentuate the positive and minimize the not so positive.